if you had your king/queen and you had a bredren/sistren who you saught comfort in, who was there for you as you said, without physical incourse, chances be your king/queen would find unu guilty of 'emotional cheatin' or sometin of the sort. n if its clearcut that way then dem isnt wrong- how can bein 'intimate' with one be more justifiable or less wrong then bein physical with one?
"they dont know who daddy is or mommy in some cases is that fair to the child. then they are confussed as to who they are and where they come from" the way me see it, nuff pickney don know who dem is n where dem come from - the root of that problem is allround lack of livity, allround lack of true family values