"they quarell because they are so confused in this iwah,they are all under the mix signals that was injected or forced in them by outfidels that came and twisted their rightful order."

I&I site that the children are quarrelling against dem parents and elders because they are taking on the ways and temper tantrums as the Oppressor. Your response sounds like the I is trying to justify rude and disrespectful behavior:

Pro 3:31 Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways.